WHAT sort of buzz, drives a man to one-night-stand,
relationships? Lola had accompanied her friend to her
ex-husband’s birthday party, hoping to have the good time
she promised. “He has birthday bashes annually”, said
Lola, “and my friend has stayed friends with her ex
because he was a good provider even when their
marriage wasn’t really working.
“He is a real clown, more a Jack-the-dad than the
successful man he’s turned out to be. The party, apart
from its not being a landmark one, was elaborate —good
food, good booze and a good crowd.
The music was a jazzy mix. Later in the evening, I
stood outside the busy toilet when he said I could use the
one in his bedroom. I wasn’t there one minute, when he
burst in and was all over me.
I was shocked. He mumbled that he’d been watching me
all evening; that he’d found me attractive for ages, and all
those mushy things men say when they are in heat. I was
shocked and terribly embarrassed. I had never given him
the impression I fancied him.
“I tried to beat him off but he was too strong.
Unfortunately, my knickers were already round my
ankles and he raped me there and then. He was out of
the toilet before I knew what had happened! I felt so
used and humiliated and when I got back to the party, I
thought every-one would know what had happened to me.
But they all just carried on enjoying themselves.
My rapist didn’t as much as look my way and when we
left, he even saw us off telling my friend what a beautiful
lady I was. I felt so humiliated, I wanted to blurt out
what happened but who would believe me?” Kayode
prided himself on being a good one-night-stand man. “I
simply love the challenge of bedding a girl the first time I
met her, if I find her attractive, that is”, he bragged.
“The moment I clamp my eyes on a victim, the
possibilities start running through my mind.
Will we be
sexually compatible? Will I come too quickly or won’t I
be able to come at all?” One night stands have a habit of
cropping up, if not often, then once in a while, especially
nights when there is too much flirting and drinking at
parties, giving you too much build-up opportunity. Then
you kid yourself that the chemistry between you and your
victim is right and then, wham!
“Of course, I’ve burnt my fingers from time to time. I’ve
discovered, for instance, that my prowess between the
sheets— if you call it that— has become topic for
conversation at some female get together during the
course of their now frequent drinking chin-wags.
Women, like men, now freely discuss their sexual
escapades and I’ve listened to a few deride the
techniques of some really influential men. Makes your
flesh crawl at times!
‘They are certainly more brazen than men especially
when they’ve had a few drinks. So, it’s not only men that
are the predators. Some women offer you sex on the
platter when it is the furtherest thing from your mind!”
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